Woman, Behold Your Son: John 19:25-27

I have long found this saying of Christ from the cross both tender and profound in its intent. Two great realities are captured in our Lord's words to his mom and to John.

First, His words exemplify tender love. Here is a son in the midst of woes and sorrows beyond expression. He is surely at a moment in which it might be understandable for him to be a bit self-focused and self-attentive. But he is not. In this moment of profound pain and suffering, Jesus is still concerned about others; in this case his mom.

She was about to be both a grieving widow (Joseph appears to have died much earlier) and a bereaved mom. Who would take care of her? Who would be her caring son (remember, to this point Jesus' brothers did not believe, leaving Mary desperately alone and in need of immediate care). Who better to care for her than John, the Lord's best friend? So Jesus provides a model here of tender care and devoted sonship.

Second, His words ensure our salvation. This one may surprise you. How do Jesus' words ensure our salvation? In this way. By making sure to care and provide for His mom at his death, Jesus was keeping the fifth commandment--to honor father and mother. This was not just a tender act of love, it was an obedient act to God.

And that matters. It matters because the sacrifice for our sins had to be perfectly obedient to God in every way. He could not leave any command imperfectly obeyed for he had to be a Lamb without moral spot or blemish. Had Jesus failed to provide for his mother and honor her even in his death, he would have failed to be perfectlty conformed to the Law of God, and therefore would have been disqualified to be a perfect sacrifice for our sins!

Yes--our salvation depended on these words and the perfect love and honor for parents that they express. Are you not glad he did this? If he hadn't, his death would have been in vain, and we'd be without a Savior still.

Thank you Jesus for loving and honoring your parents right up to the end. Because you did, I have both an example to follow and a Savior to trust. Amen.