Extravagent Affection: Matt. 26:1-13

I confess that it is my tendency to be low key in my expressions of love for the people that I care about. It has been known to get me into trouble at times.

When it is not made unmistakable, love can be easily missed or overlooked.

In Matthew 26:1-13 we find a woman about whom we've heard nothing before now. From nowhere, it seems, she enters the scene with a certain prescience about what the next few days would hold for Jesus. We don't have her back-story, but what is apparent is that she had seen enough of Jesus to be fundamentally impacted by him. We know, by her actions, that her affection for her Savior had boiled over.

You don't just grab an expensive jar of perfume on your way out the door to dinner with church members and leaders thinking, "Eh, I might have need of this while I'm there. I'd better bring it along." Then while at dinner with those friends and leaders, you don't suddenly think, "Oh, I should break this jar and spend it all in an act of love."

No, she planned this event. Overcome with the joy of her Lord, she spent time considering how best she could show it. In her care and concern, in her love, she made a statement about the worth of Jesus that was unavoidable.

In the same way, God didn't suddenly think "Ah, maybe I'll send my Son down there. It might help." Nor, when Jesus was grown did he spontaneously think "Maybe if I just died, it would solve this problem." No, Father, Son, and Spirit planned before time began how to demonstrate love for us and "while we were still sinners, Christ died for us."

Our Father planned how to show his love for us. He planned how to rescue us. He did not make it low key; he made it as obvious as a cross. He did not hold back; he spent it all.

As this woman broke the flask and poured out the perfume, God broke his Son and poured out his blood.

"Love so amazing, so divine..."

How often, when planning a way to show love to someone, do I consider the cost and rein in the concept? How often, when expressing myself, do I choose to reel it in a bit so as not to go too far. How often, when enjoying the love of my Savior, do I hold back rather than get carried away? Understated expressions of love and devotion do not change lives, they do not change worlds.

This woman didn't hold back. Neither did God.

Neither should I.

By Tim W. Shorey